I'll bet they ready have physical limitations that will affect their health down the line. It has ruined a lot of marriages which I thought about. With that attitude, youre gonna get even porkier looking forward to an update. Here's the thing. The relationship is so much better not to mention the s** just gets better and better. Its so weird, right? He used to be slim and in shape, and now, he looks like a butterball. Do not bring up his weight. He just keeps eating. When we first met I told him that I weighed 175, but it was much closer to 200, maybe a little more. Then she "might think about restraining herself, unless I decide not too", she said with a naughty smile. She says she doesn't care how fat she gets, so the number doesn't matter. I know a person my height and size isn't the ideal man for many women, but I'm not giving up hopeor ice cream. Like him I've put on some weight to. And then listen to him! But Ive gained almost 90 pounds in the last couple years. Last year she had gastric bypass. It really burns their skinny little a**** when they see how devoted I am to my beautiful, enormous, princess. Otherwise, if its a preference about their hair being another color or length, if its whether they look better with makeup on, if its about what they do with their pubes, whether they get plastic surgery, whiten their teeth, or dress like its 1987, I implore everyone to keep their negative thoughts to themselves. My wife has to lift my massive belly to have s**. My wife has always set goals, and as she gets closer to that goal, she bumps it higher. I new he likes big girls . She has known she's a type 2 diabetic for 4 years, and suspects she had been diabetic for years before that, but she's an addicted feedee and insists on continuing to eat what she wants and regularly having me feed her until she is simply too full to eat another bite. I have found tremendous stress reduction from adopting a foodie/feeder lifestyle.Now that I am obviously obese, I am very humble and nonjudgmental around the growing numbers of similarly configured men and women I encounter. There also may come a time when you express to him that your attraction level isnt what it was before I wouldnt do this right away, because that seems like a lot of pressure. Her belly has really grown. Its not a lie, though, because I really do enjoy his new size and I love his fat belly!Hopefully he gains another 50 pounds! It's difficult, challenging, and potentially straining to be in a relationship with someone who has a weight complex. It sounds like a sentence out of the mouth of every guy who . My husband is fattening up even without my help. When I graduated from high school I was 135 pounds. i'm like, oooo baby! My belly is sticking out right now from yet another demonstration of my lack of self control. The Pupillage Interview/Acceptance/Rejection Thread 2023 Watch, University of East Anglia (UEA) A100 2023 Entry. It's so uncharacteristic of me, especially since my last boyfriend was a total sports buff. A few more indulgent calories when I feel like a snack or a special dessert. At 27 years old and rather tall, 98 pounds takes a whole lot of work. The content published on this blog is for informational purposes only. Because of the excess weight, I worry about her long term physical health but I probably worry about her emotional health even more. We'all think he looks like a real healthy plump boy. When we go out to eat he encourages me to eat more, and when I say I am full he just says, C'mon, just one more bite. She had dieted down from around 400 for her wedding day and after we were married she told me that she hated every minute of the diet and that not being able to eat her favorite fattening foods was like torture. But its the truth. You can't force someone to have the same kinks as you. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!!". 350 pounds is nice foundation weight. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. Well, she got comfortable in the relationshp, and the weight started to creep up. he might actually be suffering from serious health issues. Obviously he loves you getting fatter! She is still breast feeding our youngest and needs to be pumped on a daily basis and since she is so huge, she has difficulty doing it herself. Yes it is good to know that my family is not alone in our lifestyle. I think you should bring it up to her. Copyright The Student Room 2023 all rights reserved. The funniest thing is, he has never said a word about his weight! 65 pounds in 24 months is a lot. What Im concerned about is his mental health. In the mean time, I'm just enjoying her massive belly and butt and great s**. I asked him if he wanted me to gain weight and he said he wouldnt mind a few extra pounds. Both my x was bbw.After my divorce I found thick girlfriend not yet bbw. Iam very big girl now at all most 400 pounds and Ive been married for 6 years my husband adores me loves me am very happy and glad of the attention. The fatter he gets, the less you have to convince yourself. I don't know what to do. Gain together - mutual gaining is great you get to point out where he is getting fat and needs to size up - poke poke - and he gets to see your belly rolls! But her subtle encouragement has spoken volumes. The lesson I took from camp was that people will only love you if you're skinny. Sometimes it feels more like were roommates than boyfriend and girlfriend and Im really upset by that. (Instead actually say what you feel though, obviously.) Hes stopped caring for a pet! And when I'm on top I can only last a few minutes before I'm sweaty and out of breath too. Thats some dedicated stuffing. I love that full, heavy feeling of over eating with a full fat growing gut hitting the table. But it's amazing how often we jump through psychological hoops of self-justification to . My wife is almost 600lbs, her sister is easily over 400 and her mom is the same as well. Not true in real life. Me married to a fat lazy guy. Do I Need To Tell Him I Cheated? Both are active healthy little clubbettes who take after their mom. Here are 9 signs that you should keep swiping. On top of that, healthiness is not better than unhealthiness. Dont worry about it, baby! Whenever he comes to meet with me, he brings fast food with him. I had to buy him size 40 pants (used to be a size 32), and I was so happy to watch him try them on. Right on, Im 32 and was raised in a big fat family who enjoys their food and it shows. Oh, I'm average height (5 ft 7). I can't say to her I told you so. Slap him and leave. Women are affected terribly by body dysmorphia issues because our culture makes them hate there bodies. Keeping the pounds off is one of the challenges of middle age. He stepped on the scale the other day and he has gained 50 pounds! And I should admit that he seems really attractive to me when he's at home just in underwear, with his belly sticking out, his tights tighter and his butt getting rounder. It took me a while to get over the fact that I'm helping to harm this girl's health, but she insists on gaining and eating what she wants, starting with 8 Krispy Kreme donuts every morning. Hopefully, this time next January, I'll will be waddling at the 350 lb mark. So glad to read this! My favorite part is how now (when I'm fully stuffed), my belly blocks her head from view when she's going down on me. S** is unbelievable for us. Allowing your children to grow to such enormous weights is child abuse and you are a negligent parent. One of the reasons I'm trying to get them to drop a few pounds is the clothing situation. Its just attractive to me. This is so adorable:"but I've made sure my husband got really fat. Like I said, it took some pressure off to know how he felt. He loves it, which is refreshing. !Anita G. I gained 77 pounds in the pandemic, all of it belly, and all of it flab, like my wife says "You're almost like a woman now." The doctor is concerned about their weight so we are trying to limit the junk food. 1. Here is a picture of me when my wife fell in love with me: This is me and my wife now: Not every person is shallow. Our next goal is 350 and I'll probably stop around there, but honestly, the thought of getting up to 400 makes me so wet it's unbearable.We've got a stuffing date planned for tonight, and we're gonna try something new where she's going to go down on me while I'm sitting on the couch eating a whole (medium sized) cake. Id be humiliated. It turns me on to think that I have doubled his weight. There is always next year to shape up! There is nothing you have to gain from telling your partner that theyve gained weight and that you arent as horny for them because of it. Disclaimer: My website and blog should not be considered as being a replacement for Professional Doctors advice. I'll start off by saying that I am madly in love with my boyfriend. 2. chapter 1 - skinny. So please, help me. I got back into my seat, sat up straight, and looked directly at Jonathan. And sometimes he will sign off on a return text with "T" for Tubby. I'm 288 pounds at 5'8 now. You want him to like himself as much as you . Her next goal is 500 lbs. Her OB was alarmed! Have you been gaining any weight? We've been married for 7 years. Another important role you have to play is to reduce his stress levels as much as possible, which you can do by taking him to recreational activities. What size were you when you met each other? Time to do some more porking! Now my motivation is gonebecause of her and I really hope to get it back. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. Sophie-X. They keep me hopping so weight gain is not an issue for me. We dont talk about it, but I can tell shes on a mission to make her chubby hubby even fatter. Though its less common, skinny fat is also a result of excessive stress because a hormone called cortisol would increase in the body, leading to insulin resistance and eventually fat gain. A Saturday evening with her dad, you're thinking . I'm just too lazy to try and lose it! she stood there looking in the mirror for a minute or 2, then declared, I'm gaining the weight back. Haha! Some people are more attracted to fatter bodies than fit or skinny ones, so its just a matter of preferences at the end of the day, which is totally okay. She probably also gets turned on by seeing your fat butt waddle around her house. It was just me trying to neigh the my instincts of becoming a complete blob. Love it a lot . People will skinny fat are at risk of the same medical health conditions as obese people, except it becomes more dangerous for them since it is not easy to notice from the outside. All I do is look at bbw p*** now. Just be honest and upfront and complementary of her new size and shape. I had finally reached my goal weight of 98 pounds. The good news about this is that even though youre less attracted to your boyfriend right now (fine, valid, morally neutral), there is opportunity for that to change, for your attraction to him to grow again. This is because its easier to burn fat after a bulk, and having surplus calories will make it easier to build and preserve muscles to increase the metabolic rate during sleep, which will eventually lead to weight loss. So its not a lack of honesty, its just that shes not ready to talk about it and Im respecting that. Hes closing in on 300 pounds of blubber. I tease him about it sometimes so that he knows I love him no matter the size. Its going to happen regardless. Kinda wierd, huh? "Taking care of your hubby by fattening him up is the ultimate expression of love! Better s**, less arrogant and more relaxed.Just gotta keep having s** with them and keep giving them good food for an easy life. My cooking is too good! At 709 pounds she still says she wants to get fatter for me and she has regular doctors checkups and so far all is good. Health is not moral. With her size now I have to have her track pants made and forget undergarments bras and panties they don't make any large enough for her. Only a few people have noticed so far. Its a dream come true for you, isnt it? My husband is getting fat and I like it looks good to me. I talked for a long time and don't remember everything I said but the energy was, "I am awesome, I am doing the best I can, and my . I think I made the right decision not to go for surgery at 400lbs I qualify for gastric surgery . I not only love to eat--a lot!-- but my husband is a gourmet chef. The Student Room and The Uni Guide are both part of The Student Room Group. When did you first realize you liked what she did to you? I too am a fat wife. She never asked before either. My ball gut is going to hang halfway to my knees. It's not going as well as planned and there are arguments and tantrums everyday. Fatten him up! Is he feeling that too? Grammar and punctuation are obviously not your strong suit. We have been married for 28 years. Avoid having serious conversations with him. My boyfriend's body looks like the body of the guy in the picture above. Mine lost about 70lbs and has same issue with arms and legs but she says she will never gain it back. Its making me concerned about you. I think it is kind of interesting that my oldest who is 5. weighs almost as much as your 10 year old. Be prepared to gain some serious additional pounds!You might be surprised how your desires and fantasies compare. After 1-2hrs you get off, they leave, and there's no clingy phonecalls, stalking or emotional problems like you would get trying to do this with somebody online or in a nightclub. My husband is getting fat. I've blown past every milestone we've set, she has a heavy hand when it comes to feeding. Actually, this is the main reason why so many people are reluctant to overcome their skinny fat because they think that looking good is all that matters. There are all kinds of things that make up our attraction to a person, including our own state of mind. Ladies, its not the worst thing to have a bigger guy in your life. I think our society is so focused on thinness that we havent asked ourselves the other side of the question - Whats wrong with a little fat? My comment is perfectly valid. I don't know if he's testing me for my reaction or what. In those 7 years, I've managed to get him 350 pounds or so and am still feeding him lots of calories. He tells me, don't lose them, he likes them and side belly. You might think that your husbands BMI value is fine, so the doctor is lying to you, but actually, the BMI value is just a rough guide as it doesnt always correspond to the same body get percentage in different individuals. Is it all her fault? I wanted to share with her my preference for her to continue to gain. My wife has been more aggressive in her encouragement of me eating. My boyfriend/girlfriend is doing it and or are encouraging me to do with them. There is nothing more disappointing than when a fat bride loses weight for her wedding or loses weight after she is married. And I have!. Both my daughters were around 80 pounds when they were 2. It would be wonderful if we didnt ascribe any meaning at all to someones weight. Well be prepared because your girls are going to face a lifetime of pain and misery because you and your enormouse wife allowed them to get super fat. We've been together 2 years and when we first started going out he was skinny fat. A fat body can (but does not always) imply laziness, short-sightedness, and a kind of disregard for one's holistic well-being." "A woman who is fat clearly just doesn't care about herself." "Being . How big are you planning on going? Two things: 1- Your boyfriend is a tit. Trans fat, alcohol, added sugar and fried foods are linked to fatty liver disease. Yeah maybe. Haha that's adorable. My wife has gained 30-40 pounds during this pandemic, and I love it! I'm very glad to hear that you and your children enjoy eating and being fat. Associating food with s e x has definitely helped my husband in filling out. This site is owned and operated by John J. We always talk about how much does she want to gain and she always says whatever will make me happy so with us their will be no limit. My gf compares me to Thiccollegegirl, especially cause my belly sticks out so much. There are some advantages to living life with a little extra weight. I havent been a pig about it. I wouldnt say I want her to keep gaining weight, but my level of attraction to her is higher than it was before she gained the weight. Any idea on where you will stop? I want to be a My husband is getting fat and I love it! THIS IS GOING TO KILL YOU!!! Just before I had my baby, I was 416. they weighs me then cuz they say i might need c section. It's fun to eat all you want and your partner praises your weight gain. Speeding toward sex. Just set clear boundaries. All rights reserved. Its not you can be , its you are unhealthy when you are fat. You just need to find one that's cool with being fat. I just kept saying how lovely and sexy she looked and the more I'd say more she seemed to gain she has a sweet tooth and likes takeaway, My wife is a bbw 350 pounds love her rolls of fat that hang over her fat p**** and huge saggy t*** 44Ddd, My wife lisa is the same way 365 pounds she has fat rolls that hang over fat hairy p**** she also has huge saggy 44 DD t*** with big pink nipples, Any tips on getting my wife fatter? We's got preggo 2 years ago when I's 400 an I put on about 85 pounds. Cookie Notice Am sure my husband would like to feed me but I don't think he knows how to approach the subject. When Having An Affair Is An Act Of Self-Care, Karly & Deb Found A Simple Way Of Making Long Distance Work, Caroline & Nat First Met At A House Party Over A Decade Ago, Get Even More From Bustle Sign Up For The Newsletter. =( I feel so guilty for enjoying this. When we were dating, he was 170 pounds. Yep . I'm willing to bet, though, that vary soon the real goal will be 400. Seriously. Finding a feedee that is completely comfortable with gaining huge amounts of weight is a rare thing indeed. Im realizing that as I put on some weight. Show up, love him, give . I can't wait until it blocks her even when I haven't been stuffed. In the past few months my boyfriend gained weigh, a feeeeew kilos actually. That is why unless you get regular health check-ups, you probably wont be able to know. An my baby girl, she gonna be nice an plump too! My boyfriend is part of the reason why I have got so fat. She's no longer purposely packing on the pounds, but just slowly getting fatter from her normal eating habits. I keep in shape attending to their needs. Want to read confessions and comments uncensored? As a husband with a wife in almost the exact same boat, I would just love to see her let go and embrace being a huge fatty. an there might be complicantions, and i sure did need a csection cuz that kid was huge-10 lb 14oz. The s** is amazing for us both. 2023 https://imfatandtiredofit.com/ Im fat, im tired of being fat. I know I'm being selfish by wanting him a way he might not be happy with. I want to marry you and keep you all big and fat. Youll find that this will help put 25+ pounds on your hubby as you start your married life and then you can increase his portion size to get another 25 pounds on him by your first anniversary. YOUR KILLING YOUR HUSBANDS!!! So if the doctor has said that your husband has obesity health risks and you didnt fully understand what they mean by skinny fat, now you know why. I keep imagining if the situation were reversed. (Devil horns). His face isn't hard on the eyes either. He loves to look after me . By keeping his belly full and pushing him beyond his limits, in a few years you can really fill him out. Now, this can have two reasons. What are you eating to gain? Probably worry about her emotional health even more as she gets, the you! 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